The Movie Starts.
A sweet guy, very lonely. Very emotional, he struggles a lot, expresses sadness in front of the girl, whines like a bitch, girls gets moved, boy gets girl.
------ BULLSHIT ----- BULLSHIT ------- BULLSHIT -----
Here is my opinion: Men are like Trees and Women are like Creepers.
I am not saying one is superior to the other but simply both have individual roles. Men are supposed to take care of the women, its physiology/biology at work if not else.
Now the media has screwed this image for a very particular reason. 80% of the guys do not get women, do not get apex priority. The World of today is extremely competitive because of the population crisis. If the media said 'you are awesome as you are, you are enough' then nobody will buy their jeans and jackets. why would they? its pointless.
Remember, you are likely to spend money in stupid ways only if you are desperate and/or stupid.
Women want Men because they can take care of them and not the other way round so when guys behave all emotional, it makes them more creeper-like. How can such a tool take care of his girl? *technically speaking*

get my point? unless by 'take care' someone means mass suicide, it makes no valid sense whatsoever.
So this is how the destruction happens.
Even the guys who ARE masculine by trait will end up behaving like chicks because of social conditioning, culture, fashion, TV. Because eventually even a tiger can perform circus tricks by the fear of the man with the whip.
Similarly with the pressure of society and such, a lot of men do end up becoming unmanly.
The worst part is that these movies/cultures signify its okay to be a total loser, to be a man who cannot control his emotions, to be a dickcheese.
Now please understand what I am saying is not 'a man should suppress and ignore his emotions' but simply 'a man should face them, understand them and work with them, use them as tools rather than get moved by them'
At the end of the day, it is NOT okay to behave in such a manner. for your own sake if not for anything else, I mean girls can be crybabies, sweepy and stuff but thats ok, its normal for them, they experience a wide range of emotions on a daily basis. while watching a movie, tv series, whatever, thats their biological/psychological attunement. so its natural for them. they are feminine, receptive.
For dudes, the equation completely changes. I mean our ancestors were out there hunting sabertooth tigers and maniac huge bears, imagine our ancestors whining on every other instance. pretty lame.
Although I wish for the girls to use my book Tame Your Parents MORE than the guys, I want them to remember not to imitate guys in the way they handle the situations, they are dudes. you are chicks. Handle it the way that comes naturally to you.
Saturday, January 9, 2010
How the Media has destroyed Men and Women's spirits.
Posted by Vinesh Panditpotra at 2:43 AM
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